“I knew one to I would be ok doing anything-literally anything-with this girl of the my personal front side, and be totally pleased carrying it out.”
Falling in love isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience, but sometimes, when you know, you know. Your heart won’t stop fluttering, you can’t get them off your mind, and eventually, your friends all start pointing out that you’ve got it bad. But while dropping crazy can be exhilarating, it can also feel a little overwhelming. Deciding when and simple tips to inform your partner you adore them for the first time can be a pretty big (exciting! terrifying!) deal! But worry not-we’re here to help you figure it all out.
First off, there are no hard-and-fast rules for when to say “I love you.” And yes, it’s totally normal to be nervous about it even if you’re 99.9 percent positive your partner feels the same way and is going to say it back. (Ahem, why do rom-coms make it look so easy?!) But the logistics of it all make it exceptionally stressful. Should you state “I favor you” earliest? What if you accidentally blurt it out in the middle of sex? What if you’re ready to say it, but your partner isn’t? How soon is too soon? Should you wait until a few weeks in? A few months? A whole year?! (*Screams in panic.*)
Relevant Facts
Obviously, telling someone you love them is *super* personal, and no two couples are the same. Only you know when you’re ready, and as you’ll see, everyone is different when it comes to declaring its love. Some people are ready after a few dates, while others might not be ready to say it for a while. Both scenarios are valid and normal. Read More